We all talk of the kindness of strangers
And forget the loyalty of friends
On the occasions that we lose ourselves
They find us again, bring us back
Make tea, serve up cake and laughter
When days darken and you hasten
Your way to an end, through unpleasantness
They stand by you, refusing to leave
Roll up sleeves, batten down hatches
Gather themselves for the last battle
They do the hoovering to help; put out bins
Listen when you need to speak
Stay silent when the moment passes
Pour water from plastic jugs on cabinets
Arrange pillows and pace corridors
They ask relentless questions of those who care
Insist on answers and demand
that you are respected, remembered,
addressed by your name. They thank others
Let us not forget what they deserve